So now that Reuben has crossed over to the Rainbow Bridge, and again, thanks for all your support, much appreciated....
question..... do you have a "shrine" or memorial somewhere in your house for your bully?
Did you have him/her cremated and have the ashes returned to you in a nice Vase or Box so they could remain with you?
When they asked me if I wanted the ashes back, I just had to (wife said why would I want that, why spend that extra money? but then she thought about it and said well if was her dog yeah maybe she would have done it too).... so I decided yes, least I could do, I wanted them so I know look, he is still with me here.... so I picked out the nice wooden box, a really nice case, varnished and all...(I didn't like the vases they offered, looked like a cheap dollar store pottery, LOL.... they did have nicer ones I could pay extra for but prices then went sky high, I thought the box was nice, can easily add like a brass nameplate or something with date on it....
So do any of you do this? If you have the ash remains (or even if you dont, I know some like to spread the ashes about say in your yard, or some even bury theirs in their yard, in my case over his 12 years he lived in 2 apartments and a 2 houses so spreading his ashes just wouldn't be right, he never really had the same outside grounds all his life)
so do you have a memorial shrine with photos etc or personal belongings, something like that set up in your house? Do you have it kept more personal like in bedroom or do you display out where everyone can view this?
Thanks, just curious is all..... I'm for sure going to do something in a few weeks time, just like to hear idea's what others have done. My Reuben was born in the United States, I am from Canada.... so will be adding like a small US and Canada flag to it, whenever I watched anything to do with his hometown or see on tv I would tell they wife hey look that's Reubens hometown!!!! LOL (I drove 12 hours to get him from the breeder).... so that and some photos will definately be added, maybe frame his AKC papers, just wondering what others have also done?
my memorial to my 1st puppy - Tori
We lost my 1st puppy, a lab, Tori unexpectedly at a very young age (2 years old) I was devistated to say the least - we did not get her ashes, but we took several of her pictures, and her color, and they are in a picture frame that has a shelf attached to it - in my office, so when I walk into it, the 1st thing I see is her.
There was a thread here somewhere a few months back, and people were talking about the different options - and one really hit me as special, but I'll be darned if I can remember what it was. I'll try to find the thread.
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Last steps taken May 26, 2014 -- Been rolling along ever since . . . .
Jeff the other Thread (READ QUICK!)
There is a mention of a Paw Print, in Plaster - I forgot about it. Its a great idea !
and other suggestions are in this thread
http://www.bulldogsworld.com/f/general-bulldog-forum/just-picked-bubbas-...
Rick
Last steps taken May 26, 2014 -- Been rolling along ever since . . . .
I'm sorry to read about Reuben's passing
I've been away a while and just now am getting back up to speed. I'm so sorry to read that Reuben has crossed the Rainbow Bridge.
Shannon and Winston :)
My swimming bully buddy!
i'm sorry to hear about
i'm sorry to hear about reuben...i too am from montreal,qc...and lost my archie 2 weeks ago today...
*hugs*
Created a Memorial in a Shadow Box...
for my beloved first dog Bear (not a bulldog). In the shadowbox, I have three photos (puppy, young adult, adult), his dog collar, and a beautiful poem. This shadowbox is next to Bear's ashes (also in a beautiful wooden box with a spot to insert his photo) in my bedroom next to my bed. He's the first thing I look at when I wake up in the morning and the last thing I look at before I go to bed. There was a huge hole in my heart when he passed away (from cancer), but I didn't feel complete until I received his ashes.
I'm sorry to hear of Rueben's passing. I hope this helps.
Barbara and Angus Rose
Memorial
We had private cremations for both Kilmore and Winnie. The vet also did a paw print in clay that we baked for a bit at home. We also got nice urn boxes with their names engraved on the nameplate. The rainbow bridge poem was included with the urn boxes. We have both urn boxes up on our mantel above our fireplace, and above the fireplace we had a picture of both of them up already. We also planted a tree in our back yard and donated money to charities in their honor (local shelter and the oncology department at UW Madison). We purchased a cement bulldog that we will place out near the tree when the weather gets warmer. We are still looking for a shadow type box to put their paw prints in, so we can display those.
Do what you feel should be done. I think everyone has their own little thing they need to do to honor their beloved animals.
I m so sorry about Ruben
Another friend of mine lost her baby girl today also. This is so heartbreaking. For me I am bring Loulou and Bubba home. Not in ashes . They will be for me to See at all times. Kinda strange for what I am going to do. I just refuse to let them go. I have decided this a few years ago. I will have them preserve. Yes stuff. Not because of the t.v show I have made these plans long before this. Losing A dog is one of the hardest pain to get over. I just lost my yorkie Shiloh on new years eve. I still cry everyday. R.I.P. Ruben you will be miss but never forgotten.
Karonelaine
my dogs' ashes are in metal boxes
nothing fancy, but still nice. There are 8 of them lined up on the bookshelf in the main room in the house.
Before I had buried my pets (dog, cats, birds) in the yard, but then when I moved and had to leave them, it didn't seem right. So now they can come with me wherever I go.
i have about 4 animals on my mantle...
i always get the ashes and write a little something on the plaque, like their nicknames, descriptions ....2 cats and 2 dogs! I still hang pictures of my animals. i am not a crazy hoarder or anything.. i suppose i will put them away in storage or something when i am ready...
sincerely, christine