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We lost our Winston

I tried to post this on the other "general" forum but I was denied membership. I've posted on and off in this forum with health related questions for the last 5 years or so; not a lot I know but everyone was always helpful.

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I just wanted to tell you that on Weds, April 22, we lost our baby boy Winston (aka Bubba), who succumbed to congestive heart failure. He was 3 weeks shy of his 12th birthday. He was a special needs bully who for the past 3 years did not have the ability to walk - he lost the use of his back legs due to a degenerative spinal condition - and so I would have to carry him around. He was as kind and loving a creature that ever walked this earth. Everyone who met him fell in love with him and he them.

He never suffered, never lost his will to live, or his spirit, enthusiasm, playfulness, and desire to be with us. That all changed last week when he stopped eating and just wasn't the same old Bubba. On Wednesday he was in distress and he gave us "the look." It killed my wife and I to have to put him to sleep - we were wistful in hoping he would die of old age one night in his sleep, but not naive to think we wouldn't do what was right by him. He was everything to us and we miss him terribly. Our home is empty and lonely without him. We adopted him back in 2002 when he was 4 years old from a military family that no longer felt they could give him the time or the care he needed (when we adopted him he had severe ear infections which cleared up within 3 months of our care). Looking back we believe it was fate that brought him to us as we poured every ounce of love and care into him so he could have a great life; one he probably wouldn't have been afforded had he stayed with his original family. He brought us so much love, joy and happiness - he changed us and our lives forever. He was not just a dog but a special member of our family. Goodbye sweet Bubba, we love and miss you. We created a website for him all those years ago and have posted a tribute video of him there if anyone wants to check it out http://www.winstonthebulldog.com

Thanks for listening and for past advice/help. We agree that one day soon we will adopt/rescue another Bully once the pain of losing Winston is less painful.

Sorry

Sorry to hear you too recently lost your Spotty

Sorry

Sorry to hear you too recently lost your Spotty

Thanks

Thank you.

Thanks

Thank you.

Thank you

Thanks for this. Much appreciated. It's been only 2 weeks and just still can't believe it.

Thank you

Thanks for this. Much appreciated. It's been only 2 weeks and just still can't believe it.

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good morning...

we also have lots of bulldog statues...but they are inside in a room where i have the computer..our bulldog room...50 statues...lots of bulldog pics and even stuffed bulldogs...sounds like yall are sooo much like us when it comes to your baby...we did take every bed and toy up though...

it is sooo hard to let them go...if only the tears could bring them back...

When a bulldog you love becomes a memory the memory becomes a treasure...
(In loving memory of Kaddy)

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good morning...

we also have lots of bulldog statues...but they are inside in a room where i have the computer..our bulldog room...50 statues...lots of bulldog pics and even stuffed bulldogs...sounds like yall are sooo much like us when it comes to your baby...we did take every bed and toy up though...

it is sooo hard to let them go...if only the tears could bring them back...

When a bulldog you love becomes a memory the memory becomes a treasure...
(In loving memory of Kaddy)

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I am so very sorry for your loss.....

RIP Winston.....

there are no words for this but just know I have been there and know your pain. I am very sorry

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I am so very sorry for your loss.....

RIP Winston.....

there are no words for this but just know I have been there and know your pain. I am very sorry

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Thank you for posting this

We lost our Spotty on March 25 at the age of 8 years and 4 months.

This explains a lot of what we have been feeling.

HeavenSent Bulldog Rescue of NJ.

Thank you for posting this

We lost our Spotty on March 25 at the age of 8 years and 4 months.

This explains a lot of what we have been feeling.

HeavenSent Bulldog Rescue of NJ.

Lonna with Harley and Raven's picture

A wonderful poem that helped when we lost our Rocky!

This was sent to us earlier this year when we lost our Rocky. It somehow helped. We too, felt the horrible sadness that you are now going thru. At first we couldn't even say his name without crying. But in time it did get better. Now when we talk about Rocky we remember all the wonderful things and how much he brightened everyday we had him. We have recently got a new bulldog, Harley. Our house was too quiet. He has brought smiles back into our home. Our family says he helped heal a broken heart and I must agree.

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Lonna with Harley and Raven's picture

A wonderful poem that helped when we lost our Rocky!

This was sent to us earlier this year when we lost our Rocky. It somehow helped. We too, felt the horrible sadness that you are now going thru. At first we couldn't even say his name without crying. But in time it did get better. Now when we talk about Rocky we remember all the wonderful things and how much he brightened everyday we had him. We have recently got a new bulldog, Harley. Our house was too quiet. He has brought smiles back into our home. Our family says he helped heal a broken heart and I must agree.

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So Sorry for your loss

What a wonderful ole guy. He is lucky to have found you!

So Sorry for your loss

What a wonderful ole guy. He is lucky to have found you!

I am so sorry

Dave and family. Your Bubba had a wonderful life with you.
I know how hard it was to help him cross over but that was the most loving thing you could do for him.

Godspeed Handsome Winston
sandy

I am so sorry

Dave and family. Your Bubba had a wonderful life with you.
I know how hard it was to help him cross over but that was the most loving thing you could do for him.

Godspeed Handsome Winston
sandy

Kaddy

Thanks Kathy. I'm sorry for your loss of Kaddy. I've been pretty much crying every day over Winston. We haven't moved or taken away any of his beds.....and he ruled the house with beds all over. I can't believe he's not here anymore when I come in; I still call out to him when I enter the house.

We had a "viewing" for him at a place here in NJ called Pet Meadow to say our final goodbyes and about 2 hours later we left with his ashes. We purchased a stone from a place online and it's on the way. We're going to put it out front in our garden next to our Bully statues. The tombstone you bought for Kaddy with her picture on it sounds pretty cool. When we were walking around the pet cemetery at Pet Meadow we saw a few of the newer tombstones with the pictures on them. I'm going to email you - would love to see a pic of Kaddy's stone.

dave

Kaddy

Thanks Kathy. I'm sorry for your loss of Kaddy. I've been pretty much crying every day over Winston. We haven't moved or taken away any of his beds.....and he ruled the house with beds all over. I can't believe he's not here anymore when I come in; I still call out to him when I enter the house.

We had a "viewing" for him at a place here in NJ called Pet Meadow to say our final goodbyes and about 2 hours later we left with his ashes. We purchased a stone from a place online and it's on the way. We're going to put it out front in our garden next to our Bully statues. The tombstone you bought for Kaddy with her picture on it sounds pretty cool. When we were walking around the pet cemetery at Pet Meadow we saw a few of the newer tombstones with the pictures on them. I'm going to email you - would love to see a pic of Kaddy's stone.

dave

I am so sorry

I am so sorry to learn of Winston. I just lost my George; I planted a tree in the back yard for my beloved George, but it still does not take away the empty feeling I carry. My thought and prayers are with you at this time.

With every good wish, I am
Best,
Anne

I am so sorry

I am so sorry to learn of Winston. I just lost my George; I planted a tree in the back yard for my beloved George, but it still does not take away the empty feeling I carry. My thought and prayers are with you at this time.

With every good wish, I am
Best,
Anne

I am so very sorry

for your loss. I have seen his website and he was a lovely boy. He felt all the love and security you provided him and you will see him again.

I am so very sorry

for your loss. I have seen his website and he was a lovely boy. He felt all the love and security you provided him and you will see him again.

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We lost our Kaddy on March 22, 09 a month before you lost Winsto

We felt the same as you about Kaddy...she was 12yrs ...3.5 months shy of 13 years...I cried everyday for 3 weeks...and still do when she is mentioned or a great memory comes to me...the tombstone we got for her is awsome...with her pic on it...if you'd like i'd send you a pic...my email is kaddyanne@yahoo.com



When a bulldog you love becomes a memory the memory becomes a treasure...
(In loving memory of Kaddy)

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Kathy and Koji's picture

We lost our Kaddy on March 22, 09 a month before you lost Winsto

We felt the same as you about Kaddy...she was 12yrs ...3.5 months shy of 13 years...I cried everyday for 3 weeks...and still do when she is mentioned or a great memory comes to me...the tombstone we got for her is awsome...with her pic on it...if you'd like i'd send you a pic...my email is kaddyanne@yahoo.com



When a bulldog you love becomes a memory the memory becomes a treasure...
(In loving memory of Kaddy)

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so sorry

hugs to you i am so sorry.

so sorry

hugs to you i am so sorry.

So sorry

So sorry to hear of the loss of beloved Winston. You gave him love, affection, care, and a happy home after rescuing him. Thoughts and prayers go out, and may God welcome him with open, loving arms.

All the best, Al.

So sorry

So sorry to hear of the loss of beloved Winston. You gave him love, affection, care, and a happy home after rescuing him. Thoughts and prayers go out, and may God welcome him with open, loving arms.

All the best, Al.

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My prayers are with you and the family it is hard to let one go , It has been 2 years we lost are Charlie at 12 1/2 and I still think of him every day they are family but he may no longer be with you on earth but he will be in your heart and in your thoughts all the time

Re: We lost our Winston

My prayers are with you and the family it is hard to let one go , It has been 2 years we lost are Charlie at 12 1/2 and I still think of him every day they are family but he may no longer be with you on earth but he will be in your heart and in your thoughts all the time

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Thanks Anne and we're sorry for your loss of George.

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Thanks Anne and we're sorry for your loss of George.

so very sorry...........

for the loss of your sweet boy.....what a handsome boy. please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers. rest in sweet peace baby boy..........

carrie & the boys

so very sorry...........

for the loss of your sweet boy.....what a handsome boy. please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers. rest in sweet peace baby boy..........

carrie & the boys

I am so sorry

Dave, I am so sorry. Winston sure had a wonderful life, I love his website. I lost Roscoe one month after his 12th birthday. You were lucky to have each other. God bless...

I am so sorry

Dave, I am so sorry. Winston sure had a wonderful life, I love his website. I lost Roscoe one month after his 12th birthday. You were lucky to have each other. God bless...

Dave

I'm so sorry for your loss of your Sweet Winston. Your tribute is so heart felt it made me cry. God Bless Winston as he waits to be re-united with you one day. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you a big hug. Thank you for sharing the love you shared with Winston.

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Dave

I'm so sorry for your loss of your Sweet Winston. Your tribute is so heart felt it made me cry. God Bless Winston as he waits to be re-united with you one day. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you a big hug. Thank you for sharing the love you shared with Winston.

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sorry for your loss.....

winston would of said thanks thanks for all the good times you gave me....so be asured you did the right thing and remember all the happy things you did as a family....

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sorry for your loss.....

winston would of said thanks thanks for all the good times you gave me....so be asured you did the right thing and remember all the happy things you did as a family....

So sorry for your loss...

I am so sorry to hear of your loss...what an incredible life Winston had with you and your wife. Winston's website is unbelievable...he looked so happy in every picture...one of the most beautiful bulldogs I've ever seen. He was truly blessed to have found such a great mommy and daddy...my thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife in this difficult time.

Alli and Tank

So sorry for your loss...

I am so sorry to hear of your loss...what an incredible life Winston had with you and your wife. Winston's website is unbelievable...he looked so happy in every picture...one of the most beautiful bulldogs I've ever seen. He was truly blessed to have found such a great mommy and daddy...my thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife in this difficult time.

Alli and Tank

InekeV's picture

So sorry to hear about Winston

Lots of strength in the coming period for you and your wife!

Winston had a very good and long life, and in time this will help you cope...

Ineke and Zorro

InekeV's picture

So sorry to hear about Winston

Lots of strength in the coming period for you and your wife!

Winston had a very good and long life, and in time this will help you cope...

Ineke and Zorro

Thank you all again

Thanks again to all of you for the words and thoughts for our Winston.

Thank you all again

Thanks again to all of you for the words and thoughts for our Winston.

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