well the last time that I heard from my son was on Christmas Day. he called on his cell phone from the ships..
well not heard a word since then.
that is odd odd.
he always texts somebody at home here.if not me ..his brothers but NOTHING.
I am thinking of calling the company that he works for..but do not want to sound like a worried MOM about an adult son. he is 25. do not want to embarrass him either...
I just find it odd that I have not heard anything from him..he always call especially for New Years.
I tried calling his cell phone and it goes right to an answering machine and no luck there. I left a message saying that we are concerned at home here..call as soon as you get this message...but that was 2 days ago and still heard NOTHING at all..strange.
My other sons think I should call the shipping company just to be sure that the tug is fine..so I will not be as worried as I am. it is possible they are running late..he said up until the second week of Jan. the lakes are closed..Jan.14th for the winter season.
I would make a terrible MOTHER if I had a son in the war..I would be worried sick...guaranteed.
I just do not know whether to call or not.
was supposed to be home the first week of January sometime
and that time has passed...
so not sure what to do..
IF something did happen..I am sure I would have heard about it by now..but with the ships they can get caught in bad weather in the US or Canada and hide out in a inlet for days. he is on a small little tug.
I'd presume his delay is weather-related...
and maybe that required them to hole-up somewhere that they cannot recharge enough for cell phone use (only emergency contact). I think if there were something 'negative' to report the company would have notified you, or one of your other family members. Hang in there, Mom.
I think soo too............
they are likely riding out the storm somewhere..
had this happen one time in the summer actually..
they got caught in high winds and had to go into an inlet and stay there for a few days
even the company how no contact.
the tug needs to be near a tower as well
my son puts his phone on so he does not get roaming charges in the US
so my guess is that he is delayed in Detroit
not sure if they are having a big snow storm there or not..
thanks agree...
I will call Monday and then I know for sure what is going on
could be something simple and likely is
I am just a bit worried..can you tell..
pretty wound up...to say the least..
I also think a call should be placed..
to the company..Then you can have some peace of mind:)
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Feel Better
I'm sure that all is well and they're just fine riding out the weather, but of course it's in our nature to want a phone call here and there.
thanks..being a MOM is hard work sometimes..
I am a far better person because of my boys
all adults now..but still love them dearly
I have a great relationship with all my sons
have always had that..through the years..
I loved being a MOM..and still do..enjoy being a MOM
thanks for your compliment
Being a mom....
the most challenging job in the world. Your son is fortunate to have a great mom!
at least it says I have a heart...
I am fine if they call but NO contact..I do not handle that well at all..
and if my other sons are concerned..good reason to call Monday and find out..what is up..
I bet they are stuck in an inlet though
they were on the way from Thunderbay too Detroit and that is a few days of sailing to get from a to b. not sure if Detroit got any major dumping of snow but we sure did here and he would have had to come up Lake Huron along the way back to Thunderbay or Sault St Marie
terrible weather for sailing although the good thing is that he is on a ice braker..tugs do that
Nothing wrong with being a worried mommy...
You don't stop being a mom when they become adults.
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thanks..likely worrying for nothing..but will call Monday..
can not hurt to at least find out something..
the company director I have talked to before for other things so maybe I can call the person that I know..so I do not feel just like a worried MOMMY that I am..lol
yea..well debated and stewed and worried sick.I will call
MONDAY am.
and thanks for the support
you would think the tug company would have called for sure..but NOTHING.
the other thing is possibly my sons cell phone is not working but he just got a new one..so that does not make sense.
will call though
I would call, too...
what would it hurt?
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I would give them a call, I would have already called, lol. I think the company should have contacted a family member and let them know the ship would be getting in later than expected.
thanks Gary..yea MONDAY morning i will call..
it is long enough
and stewing about it is only making me worse.
will call
thanks for the support
I need all I can get here..
scared mostly
I would definitely call the company
It's almost January 10, so that is reason enough. Good luck.



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thanks Cathy..I am stewing about it for sure...
if all else fails and do not hear something by Sunday..tomorrow
will call first thing on Monday Morning..
this is driving me nuts to be honest
so unlike him
with the snow storms out there on the water and all the rough water these days and flash freezes I am worried..
will likely call or have someone call by Monday
it is would be embarrassing if all it was ..was his cell phone is not working
but i can explain my concern to the company he works for..I am sure they would understand and maybe not even tell him I called..if I am lucky.
why would it be embarrasing for your son?
I don't understand that. A sudden uncharacteristic cessation of all contact PLUS he's is overdue is certainly something to worry about. It would be far more unusual to NOT have anyone to worry about it. I'd call the company for sure.

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OK ...maybe that would be best..get one of my other sons to call
that makes better sense then a worried MOM..
they might just get a upfront answer about it too..
we are all concerned that is the big thing..
maybe one of the other sons can give them a fast ring and see what they say
we actually had a family meeting to discuss this...
my other son was home from Out West for Christmas for 3 weeks..
and my other son was there too at supper and the decision was that
nobody really wants to embarass on son if nothing did indeed not happen..
we all great along great at the house here..
and everyone kinda looks out for the others
but this is really NOT Bryan behaviour to not call at all..
I am thinking that he caught in some snow storm somewhere..and just in a inlet.
I called the one time when they happened..before. they could not even reach the tug..the company itself..they were up in Northern Ontario and caught in bad weather and in an inlet and no type of contact could be made. I was worse that time knowing the company could not even contact them ...YIKES sometimes it is worse not knowing then knowing..
I am over reacting..LOL.
I am just kinda beside myself on this one..
I agree... and
I totally agree with having one of your other sons call. If you call, you are liable to get some guy at the shipping company roll his eyes and not take your concern seriously (just think you are an over-reacting mother). However, if they get a call from a man who says his brother has not called home- or come home- and has been unreachable... they might take that seriously and actually try to locate your son.
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No I dont think you are over-reacting and I would have one of your sons call and have them try and locate him for you guys. They might have an immediate answer, like "yeah yeah, that boat was delayed due to this or that". Wouldnt hurt to have one of them call.
I don't think you are overreacting
if it is his reliable behaviour to call regularly.
However to avoid emberassing him just incase everything is ok, perhaps could one of your sons call his company?
Tiffany and Stella
knowing Bryan not likely borrow someone's cell phone but........
he could for sure use the tugs phone that is what i would think
still no news this am.
called his cell again and goes right to the answering machine..
will have to call the company on Monday
although is something happened the family would be called by now I am sure
they often have to wait out the storms if they happen..
this time of the year there is alot of flash freezing that goes on in the lakes. that means the water turns to ice before it hits the tug in mid air..when it splashes. they have had to sit out in flash freezing as well
trying to remain calm..
thanks for your support
if his cell phone stopped working
wouldn't he just borrow someone else's to call? Maybe the bost is stuck somewhere waiting out a storm.

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