Just a question..I do sometimes feel like a bad mommy


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Just a question..I do sometimes feel like a bad mommy

Do any of you feel different about your pets. I love Tallulah and Baby Girl and would hurt anyone or anything that ever tried to hurt them but I do have a special bond with Saydee. For one she is so much like me in personality. She is not a morning person and neither am I. She can get a bit irrated at the family some what quickly just like me and I think alot has to do when I had a miscarriage she is the one that sensed something was wrong and loved on me alot and I loved on her....

Does anyone else feel this way.....

I do not show a difference to them but in my heart of hearts Saydee is my love......

I am a bad mommy............

Rebecca

I do love them all so much........

It amazes me............I look at them and I am such a proud mom............

isn't it amazing the love you can have for them....n/m

good mommy!

You just share a special bond with one even though you love them all. She's your "heart" dog. I go through phases with my two, some days my Grey is velcroed to my hip, somedays he drives me crazy and Spike's my guy. But I love them both as you love yours.

You are not a bad mommy, you

have just bonded closer with one over the other. I think that happens often and does not mean that you love one more than the other.

That might be it

I had Baby Girl first but she is always been the one that perfers to be outside.Even though she comes in at night she would stay outside all day. Saydee came with Roofie and well Roofie passed away on me so I really over obsessed with Saydee then Tallulah came and she is such a joy but very much a play by yourself kind of girl.....Plus we have to let Saydee thinks she is alpha or she gets aggressive with Tallulah. I am glad someone understands I feel bad sometimes that I can't spend the time that I want to with all of them...

Rebecca

Oh yeh and people think I am crazy as well.My niece tells me all the time will you stop talking about the bullies...

I have 3

Baby Girl was my first and I love her so much but then here comes Saydee and Roofie...Roofie passed away 4 days after we got her. I did start to over protect Saydee. I went somewhere and she went if she could not go in I did not go in. I would not leave her. The we got the call from the breeder that says they could not find a home for one of the dogs. I couldn't say NO...I went and got her. I guess in just they way it all happened I did bond with Saydee like she was my life perserver...

Rebecca

Rebecca

Hello - thats totally normal for you to feel like that... I have been experiencing a whole lot of different feelings since we got Gertie - Milo has been the center of attention for Glen and I for the past three years - totally spoiled rotten, sleeps in bed with us - and about a month before we got Gertie he bonded with me alot more, it tore out my heart, since having Gertie it's like a whole different kind of love, to be shared between two incredible pets, it's so indiscribable but my love for Milo is different now, maybe its because I have to share all that love with Gertie now too - I hope this is making sense! I also see Milo in a whole new way, he seems so smart and mature now but before having baby Gert he just seemed like a big baby to us.
Anyway - what Im trying to say is, I love them so darn much it makes others sick! But I think milo will always hold a special spot in my heart because he was our first - then again if Gertie ever stops being really annoying it may change hahaha joking!


Rebecca, I only have one right now, but I have to say

I can't imagine loving any other like I love Leeloo, she just has such a special bond with me already (after only one week together)... I hear what you're saying and I think you're a wonderful mommy for even feeling guilty of having different types of love for your babies.

- Cristina (& Leeloo)
"the greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return."

If anyone had the answer you would

You are always the one that makes us step back and take a look at ourselves..Can you tell me how you got so wise. I do love them all yet different. My mom says the same about her grandchildren and I think it has to do with personalities.

Thank you for making me feel better. I was looking through the pictures I have of them and I seem to have more of Tallulah..She is such a loving soul. I don't think she wants alot of my attention. She can make playing with a tennis ball the most fun you will ever have....Saydee is always getting mad because Tallulah has more fun with her toys and when Saydee steals them she can't figure out why they are not that fun...They are both so wonderful to watch....

Rebecca

I do not think I love one more..but

I do love each of our hearbeats differently...and I also think that some heartbeats bond deeper to certain people...there is no doubt that our springer Hawk is my sons best friend..he loves us all, but the boy is his!
..I think that's all pretty normal..they sorta pick which hearts to love and which ones to truly beat in rhythm with...don't be hard on yourself..it's the flow of the nature...that's all...smiles ce

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