This weekend I was attacked by a dog (an American Staffordshire Terrier)and now I am very uncomfortable around dogs, even my little ball of pudge. Do any of you have any ideas how I can get over this? I cannot tell you how much this sucks because I have always loved dogs and now I don't really like being around them. I know with time it will get better, but I need to live with Sampson now. Any thoughts or suggestions are greatly appreciated, I know you all have the best advice. Thanks in advance!
Georgia
hmmn...seems you like to also. No trouble started here.
...Get over your little quibbles. I didn't start anything.
I knew a man...
He had a hunting dog that went with him everywhere, he loved that dog to death. Actually said he enjoyed spending time with that dog than his own wife. (well...) He was a farmer in the classic sense; farm house, tractor shed...a farmer! One day the neighbor boy down about a mile stopped by for something or other and was standing talking to the man when the dog didn't like something or something rubbed him wrong...whatever and he bit the boy, bringing blood and a terrified kid. He promptly secured the dog, went into the house, came out with a rifle, took the dog out into the corn and shot him. He came out crying like a 7 year old (like Ole' Yeller) but said he could not have that with all the grandkids, neices and nefews. It just was not an option. I don't know if you realize that you can lose your house and everything you've worked for in this litigious society. Don't get me wrong...there are no absolutes and I am not an insensitve Ogar as some around seem to think. A snap? Well...depends on whether it was at all provoked, was it in a guarding situation, did he stop when I yelled...all kinds of factors. I love my Bulls with all my heart and they rarely leave my side but humans are more important than any dog I will ever own and one must not forget that.
Tony likes causing trouble....
just ignore him.
Kelly i have to agree with you there..but didn't want to have to
that poor overworked webbie would have to lock down....ya know...but I think we all mostly agree that is EXTREME...ce
Shooting a dog because it snapped at you once?
Don't you think that is a bit harsh? I understand establishing the alpha position and not reinforcing negitive behavior yada yada but shooting a dog based on one incident seems extreme to me.
KB
REALLY rough around the edges...
but i agree,the message is good. One badly behaved dog is not the whole dog population. Of course you'de be a bit scared- i would be too. butt try and put it back in your mind and forget it...We love you! Don't worry, be happy!
Lindsay
maybe a tad rough around the edges here..but
some good advice non the less....
Anthony is right ...talk about it ,,scream ...what ever helps you get the fear and frustration out..but then move on...only this dog is accountable..not your sweet baby..and your dog will feel your discomfort..and be confused...so try to relax..and just go about your normal routines...in reality what other feasible choice do you have?
at first it may feel forced..but things will calm down...
I hope you were not hurt to badly...and if the bites broke skin ..you really should see a doctor ...bites can get infected...postive healing thoughts...and blessings..ce
thanks!
thanks for the advice. I guess since I can't use my left hand due to the some of the bites, it's hard not to think about it. It's the big talk at work, and it's getting easier to talk about it.
The sad thing is, the dog was friendly earlier in the day and he was giving me kisses and playing. All I had to do is walk by. I guess that's my issue. I am dealing with it, and I know my baby loves me. So thanks again for the advice.
Georgia
talk about it
Why not talk to someone about it? I think getting your feelings and fears off your chest would help. When I say things - they leave me sometimes, do you know what I mean? Strange, I know.
For once I agree with Anthony - you shouldn't keep dwelling on it and licking your wounds. If you want to get it over it - you will. Have faith!
Count to ten and take deep breathes! You can do it!
Kris
just take it slow and it will come back to you.
Just sit with you dog and pet them and relax maybe some quiet music to relax by and it will come back to you it was just that dog not all dogs and seriously NOT YOU DOG.
Re: I need some help, please.
I hope you were not badly injured, but know it can be very tramatic. Just sit down and look into your baby's eyes and know that he will not hurt you in any way, I can see the love in Theo's eyes for me and I am sure you can too with yours. I hope that this does not turn you against all dogs. Again I hope that you were not hurt too bad.
How does one get over ....
...fear of flying? Attack it head on or don't fly. It's like life, things happen, we either get strong or we go hide under the bed. Go attack it head on or go and hide from your dawg until you decide to "attack it head on".
I'll tell ya, me and my wife went up to Joliet Ill to rescue a Bulldog. He was a wild one but basically a good dog. The lady just had gotten sick and never took the alpha dog position. We got him home, let him know who were the "bossi" and he was great. Thanksgiving evening, although he was put away most of the day because of family he crossed the line. He was sleeping and my wife walked by and stooped to pet him and he snapped at her. Brought blood. We'd had him about three weeks at this time. We talked about it and decided it was a freak occurance and maybe something in his past. Who knows? I could tell my wife was a bit "hesitant" around him but it was totally her call. If he would have bitten me, this would have been a much shorter story. I would have had him killed. NO QUESTIONS ASKED. I have a lot of kids around here and just can't have that and would verbally advocate the shooting of an owner who kept a dog like that. Anyway, the next morning he did it again but on a much smaller scale. He had to go. We already had Oscar at this time but she let it go. It was "Charlie" that snapped at her. No other dog! CHARLIE. I guess what I'm trying to say is "get over it"! or don't...but it was THAT dog that bit you...I'm kinda of to the point about things around here and you'll get a bunch of "pray for you's" and "puffy, sweet things" from others here but that doesn't help you in "real time". Get back on the bike and realize your dog is not the culprit and can probably feel your "hesitation".
Go give your dog a hug and move on... it's a new day.
I will assume the offending dog didn't see the beautiful sunrise this AM.
re: help
We are deeply troubled to hear you were attacked.
We hope you were not injured, and that you reported the dog to be picked up. What were the circumstances
of the situation?
It is quite common to have fear after an event such as yours, but do not let the fear run your life now. It seems it didn't before the attack, why now? Also, it is not any other dog's fault that the staff.terr. attacked you. Fear of that dog is justified, fear of all dogs is not.
Do you know if the staffordshire is vaccinated? Do you know the owner? The owner of the staff. is
100% responsible for what his/her dog did, as I know several Pit Bull Terriers and Stafforshire Terriers that can be put into a room of young children without
an incident, so it is obviously not the breed's problem.
Take care, advise on how you're doing.
gregg & arthur
Sorry...
People like that bring out the fight in me...
I was out of line.
Sorry again!
folks lets please remember this posting is about Georgia
not one upmanships...lets concentrate on sending our prayers and hugs to Georgia...that is a nasty bite..and a lousy experience....keep us posted Georgia...and let us know how it goes with your pupster...hugs...ce
ok...whatever
why don't you follow YOUR own advice, stop being such a hypocrite, and don't argue with a teenage! I think it would make everyone A LOT happier
geez.
Lindsay, grow up already. No one asked you anything... and I do believe you said "ignore him". How about you take your own advice. I'm not going to argue with a teenager. Ignore me.
thats all it would take...
for you to shoot the dog, you mean? Please keep your opinions to yourself...im sure Georgia has it taken care of.
thanks
Lindsay
Oh my...
That's all it would take for me...imagine a 2 year old kid with that kind of wound. I haven't heard you mention the police.
ouch...they do indeed look painful...
I am glad you went to the doctor....you sure don't need infection on top of the pain you already must have....
also Georgia...I hope you didn't intrupt my post above(and I only speak for me, myself and I) ,as you didn't have a reason or justification for your fear or any feelings you are having...you certainly do...
..my comments were that after you work through your surely mixed feelings..and emotions..all one can really do is move on..and go forward...blessings and my prayers for a quick emotional and physical healing...ce
pic's of bites...kinda yucky
I just came back from the doc's...after a couple shots and a perscription I am doing fine. I am getting over it but I think I am sort of justified.
