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How do you know when you should find a new home for

one of your bullies? I recently took in my daughers male bullie(he's 6 1/2), I bought him for us when she lived at home and when she got married she took him and I adopted 2 rescue bullies, Sugar who was 6 and Duke was 10 wks old.
That was 4 1/2 years ago and Duke has been the only male since then.
I can't go into the reason for her giving him back to me, just that there was no warning and I was totally unprepared. The problem is Duke is a very dominat male and so is Sal. My house is now all fences, shut doors with cabinet in front of it to avoid any chance of them meeting. I divide my time between them everynight but know this is not fair for any of them.
Any suggestions on if it's possible for them to meet and get along?
I have contacted my vet who deals with alot of bulldogs to see if he knew of a good bully home that would love to have Sal. I have some reservations regarding our local rescue group and would prefer not to go that route and I refuse to use craiglist or anything where I cannot make sure he would go to a good home. I have cried and prayed and hopefully someone here has some suggestions. He's a wonderful boy, loves my girl bully and even likes the cats, just wants to be the only male in the household.

Rhonda_Winnie and Shooter's picture

We had to find a home for our girl

We had Winnie for about a year and a half when my husband decided he wanted to get another. The breeder thought it would be ok to have two females, that the older one would mother the younger. We didn't have any trouble until the younger one was around 2. Then they started fighting. It was trips to the vet, stitches kind of fighting. It started out infrequently then as time went by it escalated to all of the time and keeping them separated 24/7. We never knew what triggered it. We found the younger one a home where she'd be the only dog.

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I have two males that as pups got along, but then one day.....

the younger, more confident one, decided he HATED the other male, let me also say that I have eight dogs in my home, total of five males and three females. The younger one gets along with all of them, except Jackson who isn't not very confident at all. I brought a trainer into my home and she has worked wonders. Now, I am not saying that you don't have to watch, but she has them all together when she comes here, now my job is to let the two who disliked wach other out alone together with me and the family to build his confidence. The other day, they actually layed down near each other, totally relaxed. It was so great!!!!! So, my suggestion is to find a trainer, if you intend on keeping him. I do still have gates and so far it has worked for me, I just couldn't bring myself to give one of them up. Now Jackson who is the less confident one would probably love to be an only dog, but that's not an option for him. He really has bonded with my daughter, and spends most of his time with her in her room. I let him come out for awhile, but when things start to make me uncomfortable, I put him behind the gate.

fighting is stressful for the dogs too..

rehoming is not a bad thing. Both dogs could lead much happier less stressful lives if they are not forced to worry about confrontations all the time. Not to mention, it would make your life easier.

Use the BCARN application and do your own home check. Do not place him without neutering if he is intact. Neutering will eliminate any potential adopter who only wants to use him as a stud.

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Have dealt with same thing (only females)

I had the same thing only with a female bulldog and a female boxer. My son got the boxer from a girl at college who had two and couldn't keep them both. He always wanted a boxer and she was free so he brought her home to me as a suprise. Needless to say I was suprised. I had my bulldog Abbie and a Boston Spike. The fighting between the two females started almost immediately. I decided to bring in a trainer(who helped me tremendously.) It took awhile but have not had any incidences in quite awhile. I have to say the main thing was the stress I was feeling. I truly believe they were feeding off me and my moods. My bulldog even had to get a stitch in her leg after one incident but now they are the best of friends and even sleep together on the couch during the day. Good luck and know there are others
who understand what you are going thru. Just wanted you to know there is hope. Also there was an episode on the dogwhisper of exactly the same thing. two bulldogs (from same litter) who they were keeping separated for the same reason. Could probably look up on his website.

swalters921's picture

I agree with Judy

It's so sad, and so hard to do.

Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Colossians 3:12

Thank you for your suggestions. Regretfully your right

I do know in my heart what is best for him, it just hurts. He's my grand puppy and I just really want him to be happy. We had him neutered when he was 2 and Duke is also neutered. I'm located in Mo and we have two rescues with Heart of America. I'll see if I can locate his breeder, but it's been a long time. Once again thank you.

judy wilson's picture

when you are no longer....

enjoying your dogs....when it becomes work and your not enjoying them and their not enjoying their time....it wont be easy..and you will cry...but finding someone a new home would be a good idea for everyone...becasue a accident can happen and the males can get into a horrible fight....take your time and let people know your planning on rehoming one of your dogs....this way you will no the person and it will feel good....

AmyandSophia's picture

Sorry, should have said CAN, not Ican!

Let me know where you are!

Amy and Sophia

AmyandSophia's picture

Hi Jan, Ican you tell me what state you are in?

There may be a rescue other than the one you know of in that region that could help you. If not, please post him on this site as well..http://www.network54.com/Forum/629186/

They might could help better....you may get locked on this thread for posting about a bully available, but please don't quote me on that!! Best wishes to you....

Amy and Sophia

No simple suggestion other than that you need to neuter him

if he's not already been neutered. It may not change his personality but it might, plus the concern about someone using him for stud or worse is a true concern. I also agree that the breeder should be contacted. Dominant middle-aged males are not easy placements.

I think you

have probably already made your mind up you just want reassurance.

IMHO your house is probably very stressed. It is no fun having dogs that don't get along and having to gate rooms off...and then worry about a possible fight. I would try to rehome your daughters dog. Is he neutered?

Are you intouch with his breeder? They might have a home that would be suitable for him if you don't want to use your local rescue.

Do you have a local bulldog club that is unrelated to your rescue organization? Maybe you can talk to some of the members to began networking for a possible home.

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