She has seemed a bit slower the last few days, but I chalked it up to grieving Raven. The lack of his energy, like all the bouncing, she used to get caught up in it, sort of like competitive. She'd get so excited at feeding time, because he would, she'd even jump at his neck and bite him, didn't phase him, he'd just bounce and keep watching me at the closet door, it was all part of the Excitement Dance. But now, Betty bounces a little and waits. I figured it's his lack of energy/presence. And also my grief, just a downer and she's picking up on it.
But today, bone chew time in the morning. Yesterday, she took it and wasn't so voracious about it. Used to be she'd chew like crazy and after 15 mins or so, I had to take it away or she'll eat the whole thing. She just goes into the zone. But after 5 mins or so, she just laid with it. She'd look my way and bark. This is also something she used to do, guard her bone and threaten Raven by barking with it in her paws. So, didn't worry me too much, she was looking at Cowboy Cat, so made sense.
She's always ignored Mom's dog Cowgirl, who still lives next door. Cowgirl bounces and buzzes around her outside and Betty just plugs along like a little bulldozer. It's always been that way. The only times I see Betty not like that were at the specific times of 1) me getting home/dinner time and 2)breakfast/bone chew time. And Raven was always doing backflips too, so maybe that's why that was when her energy level was higher?
But this morning. She didn't even beg for her bone. Just went to sleeping on the couch. So, I took it to her there, put it in front of her and she just licked once and went to sleep. She usually grabs them so fast, you have to be careful not to accidently get bit. I sort of drop the bone at her face and pull my hand back because she can't see so well. The only way I get them back is to tempt her with a distraction treat and snag it. Not today, for the first time. She's just laying there snoring, opens her eyes, but that is all. I can pick the bone up, right in front of her face. NOT RIGHT. CRUD. It could be depression, nobody to compete for it? I don't want to dump $500 into xrays and bloodwork for depression!!! I spent $6000 on vet bills last year probably and my hours have been cut to less than 5 a day and I'm putting everything on my Line Of Credit, even living expenses, it's scarey.
I hate to not go straight to the vet. But, I guess I'll wait to see if she turns her nose up at dinner tonight first... Any advice on a senior bully left behind from the loss of another pet?
"Little Miss Betty Cuteface"
Toofie on the left, eyeball on the right.
Raven (prior to tripawd surgery) and Betty
Dogs mourn, too.
I think that's what's happening. Just give her love and time.
Hoping you are doing OK. A hug with your bullie will help both of you.
Dawn, I think you and Betty BOTH need extra loving and cuddling
...so please give it to each other
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I hope you can both start feeling better soon.
Have a great day, and don't forget to kiss someone you love!
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Dawn... Camilla was very low after Tillie died...
It was very sad. Her whole demeanor changed. We just gave her lots and lots and LOTS of love.

That being said - she never refused to eat, or a treat. It took her awhile to be back to being perky, and still, she's not quite the same.
It could very well be depression, but I think you have the right idea in bringing her in to check her out, since she is refusing treats... our thoughts are with you both.
I do know of a dog, family friends, that became excessively depressed after her owner died. I've never seen a reaction like that one since, and it broke my heart.
Please hug her for all of us....
Always in my heart...
she is likely very depressed...
I believe dogs truly feel things like this.
My girlfriend has a German Shephard. her cat the time got killed on the highway and the German Shephard went off food and water and everything. I went with her to the vet and he was super depressed. she actually ended up getting another cat..
so I am sure they feel ...big time ..and likely getting the vibes from you too..
that is maybe where most of it is coming from...she feels your pain ...
best of luck to her and update us later
Ollie was the same way after Oscar went to the bridge...
he was very bummed and lethargic. He perked up a lot when Chester came along, I think he just missed his brother.
Kathy, Ollie and Chester
Dawn, I'm thinking of you and Betty
Keeping you both in my prayers. You have both been through such an emotional time and maybe she's just expressing her grief in this way.
try to stay upbeat for her :)
it definitely rubs off, if you are more "up" she likely will perk up more too. Try not to stress too much, let it run its course
give her a big hug from us
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Keep us posted....
Hope its just a bout of grief and betty will bounce back














our pets grieve as we do.....
she had raven as her ears and eyes....she knows he is gone....lite some lavender candles this will help her mood....and then it takes time...just like us...the older the harder....my bob was 11 yrs old when he lost his litter brother...he was never really the same...thier was just a little lite missing...but when i got wilson he became very protective of him...he liked playing with wilson...i think he liked having someone to play with...as he and kelly would play even in their old age....wilson loved playing with a ball and bob was ball crazy...
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wilson was always with bob to....i think bob gave him alot of confidence...and they gave each other alot of company....
:( sad... Dawn I am sure like u she is just so sad and misses he
Hope everyone has a great day
awwww Babydog!
she does look pitiful.

Cathy
when she first came home
Hang in there girls
If she gets a clean bill of health, I prescribe a trip to the McDonald's drive through on the way home. Junk food is good the the soul - if not the hips.
I'm so sorry, hope Betty will be ok...
animals grieve, but its always good to be sure shes ok
much bully love~Christine, Dupree, Marley and Savannah
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She's so sad....She always perks up a bit when I get out her collar, meaning a Car Ride. Making little "sighs" with every breath. Did a head tilt thing a second ago, never seen that. I hope everything's fine, but I need to KNOW and not do nothing.
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I'm dreading going to the vet so soon without Raven. His body is probably still there. The crematorium picks up on Wednesdays. :*(
Prayers again please.
"Little Miss Betty Cuteface"
Toofie on the left, eyeball on the right.
Raven (prior to tripawd surgery) and Betty
please keep us posted, good vibes and hugs. eom
On my way to the vet now
Well, I took Rae's advice and just offered her cheese from my sandwich and she just ate it laying down, very slowly. I could NEVER live with myself if something happened to Betty right now of all times!! I called the vet and Tom has an opening in 30 minutes, which is unheard of, he's always very overbooked. I took that as a sign, I'm on my way. It's only money (or debt)...
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"Little Miss Betty Cuteface"
Toofie on the left, eyeball on the right.
Raven (prior to tripawd surgery) and Betty
I think she misses her buddy
Dawn if she is eating/drinking and going to the potty normal, I would not go to the vet.
I believe animals do grieve. She misses Raven and she also is picking up on your grief.
You could get her a new bone,maybe that will perk her up
Hugs to you and Betty
sandy
aww, poor little Betty :(
I would think she is grieving for sure. Anything that she LOVES to eat? Even french fries if she loves those once in a blue moon. Treat her to something to try to cheer her up if you can.
hugs to you all
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She probably misses her friend...
Raven and is confused.
I think that dogs can grieve for each other. I have a good friend who is going through something very similar with her bully female. She recently lost her male & these two dogs were very close. Her female looks for her friend.......sad. Hang in there Dawn.



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I agree with the others
I'm sorry you're both so sad. =(
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She probably misses Raven
Maybe she needs a new dog friend.
Michelle, Helen, Penny, Spanky and Faye pup
I bet she is grieving
when our German Shepherd died, the dog left behind mourned him for weeks. She would go outside to the place where he died and just howl. She NEVER did that while he was alive. She moped around for a long time, it made it harder for me to deal with his loss because of how sad she was too.

Cathy
when she first came home
Stella gets that way sometimes
I think it's probably a combo of missing Raven and being in tune to your mood. That's a lot for a little old girl and she may just be extra tired.
Sounds to me like she's got the blues...
Give her a hug and a smooch from me, would ya?
Dawn, I can imagine the pain you both feel at Raven's loss. I th
wise to watch and see if she eats. However, I would not let her go like this for long. When our Patsy-gurl died, our boy Mack (our german shepard) just gave up for a while. He seemed very lost without the interaction he had with her. We eventually adopted a newfoundland who was in failing health, but still was company for Mack. He really perked up. It is the companionship and interaction of another dog that made life worth living for Mack. When I was a teenager, our collie died at age 11 leaving our german shepard, King, alone. He really missed Barney the collie, and within a couple of months, he too went to the bridge. I have this urgency about me to never let one pet go without companionship of another dog after that experience. King was my heart-dog. His loss was devastating. I am praying for you and Betty. Our dogs are so very smart about the loss of another. Many hugs to you both,
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Maggie
Schubert Angel
For what it is worth
i think she is really grieving raven. she can pick up your vibe which is down as well. she is probably alot more in tune because of her limited sight too. she is lonely and has no "competition." on the other hand I know when Josie isn't feeling up to snuff, she has a warm nose and really warm pads. I understand the economics of it all and see how she feels later today, maybe do something special with her that may bring her out of her dulldrums. It is hard no matter what. Tamsen
Not sure Dawn, but hopefully it's just grieving, I know you
don't need anything else right now! Thinking of you both!