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It's been a few days since I've been on.

I have to say these last few times I've been on prior have been pretty depressing.  And now Baxter?!? This hurts my heart too much.  I know losing a loved one is part of life but I still hate it.  I'm sorry...really sorry.  I don't know how one moves on from losing their best friend/baby/companion... and I don't want to know either after seeing the past few losses here; however it's bound to happen.  I don't know what I'm trying to say.  I guess I'm just hurting with those who have lost their babies recently.  EVERYONE here is in my prayers. 

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Pegsy's picture

(((hugs)))and it will always

(((hugs)))

and it will always hurt...but nothing like a good support group to help 

you get through it...i have suffered from loss recently myself and in here,this group

of amazing ppl w/their beloved bullies has done my heart and soul good and can only

continue to get better...and just knowing that the ones we lost are together over the by bridge

makes  my heart smile.

Great to see you again :)

Fatboyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy  :)  its ok buddy, its part of life unfortutely, Baxter was oh too soon though (in my opinion) Now you just take care of mommy and daddy ok? :) Oh and enjoy the Puppitis pictures! they might cheer you up a bit!)

Gizmo

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karonelaine's picture

They are both right

One day it will be our babies. It's the one left behind we have to be here for. This kiss me too. But we Honor our babies who went to play at the bridge and pick up the pieces of the family.  We are here if you ever need to vent. I'm still crying over Bacter and Stella. I love them and never meet them just like fat boy he means the world to me also. 

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Céline and Angel Stella's picture

It seems to go in phases

I'm been on this board for about 10 years now, and it seems like we go through long periods where everyone is doing ok and them BAM! we get a series of losses/illnesses/accidents...  It's weird given the different ages and situations of our bullies, but for some reason, that seems to be the way it goes.

Don't give up, things will get sunny again!

You hit the nail on the head...

When I saw the news of Baxter I couldn't even form a sentence of consolation because it is THAT heartbreaking. These moments just further incentivize me to cherish every moment I have with Rugby and love him so much that he will most likely be annoyed by it all ;-) It is what we have to do to get over these sad losses.