The moderators have been deleting posts about Bella Stella apparently talking about her "condition" isn't allowed or something so if you would like to know how she's doing you feek free ti private message me. I won't be talking about her "condition" for the next 2-3 months on here so not to get kicked off of the forums/site. So even when her current condition is over and there's more to talk about and excitement to share, I won't be doing either unless you private message me.
Approved Breeder
It's because you are not an approved breeder. You can't post about litters unless you are an approved breeder.
I was told...
I could not advertise them or post pictures of her pregnant. However, they also told me I could ask health questions relating to her, the pregnancy or the pups. So when I was told that I stopped posting. But if someone else posts talking about it, I don't understand why I'm not allowed to respond. - Oh well. I don't care. It's not that big of a deal to me. I have certainly not advertised them and that was never my intent. I'll answer questions from now on only if they are privately messaged or e-mailed to me.
Yeah you just can't advertise
Yeah you just can't advertise or post pictures of them.. What's the big deal about informing other members how she is though? Or what the turn out was with her. I didn't see your response, but be careful with the vet you use. I think he likes to risk things a bit too much, for someone who's not on call like you said they won't do anything on a Sunday.. Not good, you need a vet that will always be there for you.
See my response below for specific information about this
and the reason a majority of her posts were removed. It is plainly and simply stated in the rules, and all members are asked to read those before posting their first time. It isn't being unkind to anyone, it is just how this board is run:-)
Amy and Sophia
again the ugly heads raise up
this board has gone way down...no where in any post did i see you adv your puppies...only asking questions that a medical board could give...and at all times we suggested a vet...their are ugly jealouse people here...and some times they need to strike out and ruin a good time...
I am sorry this happened to you and i am sure sooner or latter the raw discussion will be picked on as it already has...it takes to much of this board up... you can private e mail anyone...i shall miss your comments and being part of your journey.....i really enoyed your comments with everyone else who par took in your journey and i was so happy to see your knowledeg grow and develope and i know you felt good with everyone cheering you on....
good luck so sorry this happened.....
No ugly heads here Judy:-)
Just trying to help Laura understand why some posts were removed. I rather think we all like her a lot, and we just wanted to help her out by explaining in a kind way why things are the way they are here:-) No harm, no foul.
I hope Laura will continue to seek advice and post about her beloved bully, just not the litter of pups she is having. Rules are rules:-)
Amy and Sophia
The problem is...
breeding and reproduction are part of health, and that's the failure of this board. Rules are rules, but it takes away a lot of the education. Especially with certain people displaying their progress and personal experiences. There will always be bad apples, but if the education is not there, and not everyone can rely on their mentors for everything in all fairness. Sometimes it's good to just display what's going on for the purpose of putting the knowledge out there. People will abuse that one way or another. Just saying the truth.
failure of this board
No the failure is that no one cares about the importance of breeding and health. There were plenty of reputable breeders with years and years of experience that used to frequent the board. They have all been run off and will not be returning. There are others broads where people that want to learn and care about the breed and its future to go to. Breeders who are concerned about breeding quality healthy bulldogs, with little concern of money.
The rules are in place for a reason. If the readers don't understand that reason then the should google puppy mills.
PLEASE add me to the list!
I want to know as soon as you are able to post all about the pups and Momma!!
Cathy and Audrey
I want to know too..I have been following her condition as well.
I would love to know how she is doing and then see pictures of the pups!
Please email me as well!!!!
You can email me or message me! I've been checking everyday to see how she's doing!
And please understand that people on this board need to get over themselves. THAT is the reason that more than half the people that use to post here, no longer do. Don't take it personal. Just because there are a few bad apples doesn't mean that the rest of us don't care about Bella and her condition!!!
Please keep me posted!
BDW has been a life saver for Kofi and me.
I am extremely glad that Laura has decided to join us and share her beautiful girl.
That being said, I do not think it fair to say that those of us who observe the rules are "bad apples" and uncaring.
That kind of statement is so divisive and hurtful to those of us that love and treasure one another here at BDW.
Carol
Please please please don't be offended by what I said. I apoligize for the vagueness of my statement and I probably should have just kept my comments to myself. BDW has also helped me in many many tough situations and I enjoy almost everyone on the site IMMENSELY (not to mention that you and Kofi are two of my favs:) ) It just upsets me that that Laura feels the way she feels now and that we will miss on the expeirence of Stellas birth, being that we are suppose to be a family and share wonderful moments like that. I just personally feel that there are some (which I mean the bad apples, which was not the correct thing to say) say hurtful things without being repremanded- but because they are condsidered "veterans" no one speaks up. All along, Laura has been posting inquiring and asking for help in regards to birth and Stella's health, but simply because someone posted insulting her vet and mentors and she felt like she had to defend herself, now she isn't allowed to post at all.
It really just makes me sad the evolution of the board the past few months. It makes me sad to see the many people that have not returned (for many different reasons) and I just feel like people are going to continue to leave because they feel insulted and pushed around by a few. So for sticking up for Laura, who I believe didn't feel she was posting anything negative or breaking rules, I am not sorry. But for saying that I did and hurting the people I care about I, I apoligize immensely.
One of my biggest flaws is the inability to keep my mouth shut when people/animals are being treated unfairly. Again, I am sorry for what I said and the way I said it...I never meant to insult you.
I know, honey, I love Laura
too. It's obvious that she is an amazing woman and an asset to this site.
Your apology is totally accepted, of course!
Melissa, I sincerely hope you don't mean me in your statement.
I, for one, love this board, and it has given me so much more than just Bulldog help. The rules are made for a reason though and I respect that. We don't know each other, few on the board have ever met each other in person. We don't know who is who, nor what the true intention behind their posts may or may not be. So, the rules are for the safety and well being of all, because of the "bad apples" that can come to this site and ruin it for the rest of us! How do you know that Laura, (and NO I don't think this personally about this lady), but how do you know she didn't tell everyone the delivery date and number of pups in hopes of finding buyers for them on this board. You don't know that she DIDN'T intend to have that happen, and unfortunately the people in charge of moderating this board don't know if that is the intent either. So the rules state that birth announcements, unless from an approved breeder, are not allowed. That is for the good of the whole, not the ruin of the few who choose to not read the rules FIRST before posting information that isn't allowed:-)
This board has grown and done well the past few months. I know a lot of folks aren't as enchanted as they used to be with everything that has happened, but if folks would be true to the intent behind this forum to begin with, maybe there wouldn't have been such things going on to have made others leave. It doesn't mean we wanted them to go, they made that choice on their own. So when you bring up things you may not know everything about as far as behind the scenes and what caused what, be careful what you say:-) It may not be what you think!
I like you and George...So I hope your post was not directed at me:-) If it was, I am sorry you feel this way.
Amy and Sophia
Amy I sent you a message..
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Amy I sent you a message..
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Intentions of the Rules
First off thanks Amy!
There are reasons why the rules are in place....bottom line it is to try and keep puppy millers, BYB's and those breeders that breed crap dogs from pushing their litters on this board. Unfortunatley the board no longer is dedicated to the Bulldog breed. That is the reason so many veteran, breeders, show people, many of my friends have left this site. I remember when David owned this site there were many, many of use who DID and DO know each other personally. Many of us met in Vegas one year and many of us have met at nationals or other shows. It's unfortunate what David built over the 10 years or so has been torn down to nothing in such a short amount of time. The breeders that have SO much knowledge think this site is now a total joke. It is simply here for the fun chat. The information that comes from this board should be taken very lightly. We now have Bulldogs of the month that aren't even Bulldogs. I'm curious to see what the Bulldog calendars will look like. I'm guessing we will have Olde English, American and whatever breed people decide are Bulldogs in there. I decided I wouldn't support the calendar anymore. I've been asked to provide a photo for Bulldog of the Month but if they are going to open up a Bulldog site to other breeds then I have no interest. I think it is fine to share photos but to intentionaly dupe the readers on this site is not correct. The purpose of this site is for education and solely dedicated to the Bulldog breed.
Maybe Melissa's post was directed to me? Rules are rules and I have had several private messages with Laura. I'm concerned about her bitch and have tried to help as much as I can.
The breeders that are listed have paid there dues to get listed. They have met the criteria set forth by the owner of the site. The breeders listed are dedicated to the future of the Bulldog. Most show and have the future of the breed as their first and foremost concern everytime they raise a litter. They don' take breeding lightly and without much thought. I spent more then a year deciding on a stud dog, studying pedigrees, and lines and many a sleepless nights deciding if I was going to even breed Ester.
It's people like you
that keep a lot of new bulldog owners coming back. Without the knowledge of experienced bulldog breeders/handlers how are we supposed to know fact from fiction? Many pet owners don't want to know show information, but still are very interested in conformation, and standard talk. Maybe now that we've had a bulldog we'd like to get a show potential next time. I understand going to shows and speaking to people is part of that, but having a place like this where we can talk to SO many various people from all over the country is wonderful!
Cathy and Audrey
Thanks Cathy
Your comment is much appreciated.
LOL!
You talk about "what people decide are bulldogs". Funny because your "Purebred bulldogs" are what someone decided to make way back when. Bulldogs were made by crossing other breeds. Hard to get mad at the truth. It sounds to me that people like you wish that people like me (mixed breed owners) shouldn't even be allowed to participate on this site or anything to do with it. You just need to get off your high horse. Go ahead and rebutt because I'm not coming back to read your response. I haven't been participating much on any of the bulldog sites and reading crap like this doesn't make me want to. =)
We now have Bulldogs of the month that aren't even Bulldogs??
What makes a Bulldog a perfect Bulldog. My Bulldogs PollyAnna and Hank are as good as any I have seen on Bulldogs World. PollyAnna is a registered English Bulldog (and I have papers to prove it!). and Hank is a Registered UGA IV Bulldog too who can stand up in conformation with the best of them. Just because PollyAnna is not a perfect specimen with her longer nose does not make me love her any less. She is not a mix! She has an AKC Good Citizen Title, A Registered Education Dog Title, and spends selfless hours of community service for nothing but a pat on the back and an occasional cheeseburger (no onions). She is a true ambassador to the Bulldog breed and some of these so called perfect Bulldogs cannot hold a candle to what my so called CRAP bred Bulldog has done. So if you want a so called perfect Bulldog as Bulldog of the Month or on a Calendar there just isnt enough of them to make one. :-( P.S. my CRAP dog is spayed so there won't be any more of her crap bloodline to go around...that should make some people happy...oh and another thing...I have a PAID for ad to advertise her book... :-(
PollyAnna's Words of Wisdom
http://www.lakeside-studio-petportraits-andmore.com
I would like to know too
censorship is a BIG turnoff!!!!! I sent you my private email Laura.
Skasqueeeeeeakaaay!!
Katie & Chumlee
Here is the exact text from the rules for non-approved breeders.
"Anyone who is NOT listed on our breeder’s link is considered a NON LISTED BREEDER and they can NOT post any litter pictures, whether current or old pictures or any announcements of an upcoming litter or birth of a litter".
Laura, while I look forward to the birth of the puppies, you did break the rules about posting specific information about the upcoming birth of this litter. That could be deemed as announcing a litter with the possible intent to attract buyers. Now, I don't know if that was your intent or not, I am not going to say either way, but had the rules been even glanced at before posting this thread, you would have realized why your posts about specific dates of the litter birth were removed. It was one thing to ask questions, another to actually give information specifically about the date of their birth.
Amy and Sophia
The rules are what sets this board apart
There is a particular bulldog board without rules where any byb, "rare color" breeder etc... yahoo can and do post their litters and stud ads all day long. Now, if you were new to the breed and looking for info and stumbled on their board, you may end up being mis educated or even end up buying a rare blue Bulldog for $6,000. The idiot that runs the site gives horrible advice such as recommended breeding on the first heat and putting down pups born with backwards feet( they turn around in a few weeks). People I guess have the belief he knows what he is doing because he runs a site.
I hope you Laura or anyone else don't take take offense to the rules or take them personal.
Thanks for helping us to understand
more fully, Amy.
I must say that this site is truly unique, and my wish is for it to remain that way.
Love to all!!!
thank you Amy and Amy
I'm posting on behalf of Cathy and the owners as well since I appear to be the first to see this.
New posters are told to read the forum rules carefully, especially when their app mentions anything about medical help for a pregnant bitch or litter. If they choose not to, violations will be edited or deleted. The old owner never wanted to turn away people that needed medical help, however, these people should also be talking to their mentors.
The ONLY thing non listed breeders are allowed to post are medical/health questions either for mom or babies when they arrive. Anything else is in violation of the rules. If someone posts and asks about an upcoming litter from a non listed breeder who has been asking for medical advise, it will be deleted. I suggest people check the breeders list prior to making a post. If it's missed (we can't be on line 24/7) and until it is caught and removed, the person should not be replying if they aren't on the list.
Rules have been in place for 10 yrs w/o change.
If someone is not sure if a post they want to make is in violation, I urge them to private message Cathy or myself prior to posting, otherwise, if the post is in violation, it will be removed.
Sue
All photos are copyright and cannot be used.
I did read the rules
but it's been almost a year and I honestly just forgot. Especially since I don't breed and am not looking for a puppy, those rules never stuck in my mind. My feelings aren't hurt that my post got removed, I respect that I can come to this site and know there is no puppy selling agenda to weed through. Laura, I do NOT think you have a puppy selling agenda, and I was really enjoying reading all about your first litter. I hope you will continue to give me updates privately.
Cathy and Audrey
I understand everything
I understand everything you're saying as I've visited the board for the last 10 years on and off.. What is sad though, is how a lot of people who started and were a part of this website have disappeared.. There's more to the picture, it's a nasty cycle and it doesn't help the breed when people don't continue to stick up and fight for certain things. Which is what you are doing here, but I wouldn't stick up for those that look down on this site now etc. Cause I believe in my eyes they are in the wrong, regardless of how right they are in their cause etc. When people quit and give up like that, that's why things go hay wire. I honestly think it has to do with life and too much going on, as this happens with "Everything".. especially in the case of hobby breeding and showing etc. I just wish more people wouldn't let things over power the cause and then think of it as a "joke" cause things are not making sense and changing in a negative way.. they are also part of why it happens unfortunately in my honest opinion.
Education
We get tired of fighting the fight and trying to educate. I'm still here but my posts are seldom commented on and I post very little any more. I do read daily and I do look at a good majority of the photos but I seldom have time to respond. I'm no expert, no one is, but I've been involved with my family since I was born with dog breeding, showing, grooming, etc. My father was a licensed professional handler in the 70's. I showed as Jr. handler and I've put conformation and obedience titles on dogs. I loved the horses more growing up so I concentrated on that industry and showed, trained, bred/raised horses for 30 years.
Heck I'm not sure anyone on this board even knows I had a litter 4 months ago. I barely had time to post photos. I also would not have come to this board for information about when to take the puppies. Those questions need to be asked of your mentor/s or people you know and trust, not strangers.
I'm all for the wonderful pet owners on the site and their love for the breed. I'm a pet owner as well, my dogs are my kids. But I'm also dedicated to the welfair and future of this breed. I'm dedicated to the reputable breeder that devotes endless hours to this breed. There are people out there who would love to see the Bulldog breed as we know it become extinct. I couldn't imagine having that right taken away from me. I love this breed way too much. You can't educate unless people are receptive.
There are other forums that the breeders, hobby breeders, exhibitors frequent when they have a need to ask important questions and want some interesting discussion. Like the discussion a while back involving the Breed Standard. Most people have no interest in those type of discussions.
There has always been "Life" going on, it didn't just start happening this year. So why didn't it affect the board for the past 10 years when David owned the forum? In the 7 years that I've been coming to the forum I've seen many, many people come and go and some come back, but there was always several pages in a day to go through. Infact it was difficult to keep up. Not so anymore.
The rules are there for specific reasons
which have been stated numerous times in the past.
Sue & I simply try to enforce them, no one should take it personal. If people would just follow them, we wouldn't need these long discussion threads. The process is easy, read the rules and please follow them.
Cathy & Zimmer
www.midatlanticbulldogrescue.com
BellaStella
I also PMed you, I'd like to know the situation as well. Thanks :)
I read the rules, several times. I even asked the moderators...
And I still don't understand how I broke them.- I guess I'm just stupid. I only told how far along stella was when people asked. After they asked I didn't figure it was a big deal to talk about it since it was already out there.
I came here to talk about raw... It took me a while to even talk about her "condition" because a friend had told me it should be okay... and I guess it is to a point and showhow I overstepped the lines. I was very worried about ever bringing up the fact that she was "cooking" but it pertained to questions I had about her nutritional needs and how raw met them. After it was out there people started asking me her status. That's the only reason I spoke about it.
I certainly was not trying to sell anything. I've had a couple people e-mail me off list (during the time I was talking about raw) and if you ask them (I'm not going to give names but if they want to come forward they can)... they'd surely tell you I never once tried to sell them anything. I'd rather go through my local Bulldog group to find new homes. but just so it's clear... my buns aren't for sale
Okay so anyway, I am not taking any of it personally. I am sure it's how it's done... I just really didn't think I ever crossed the line which I had. I'd like to stay an active part of the group but for the next few months I don't imagine I'll have much else to talk about so when all is said and done I'll come back.
Hi Laura, I have always enjoyed our private
e-mails and the pictures of your great family, two and fourleggers.
It sounds as if you are very well thought of by all this board.
You have much to contribute, and I am glad that you are not taking it personally. After all the postings, it's obvious that it wasn't meant that way.
I sure wasn't clear on the rules, but then I forget most things after I go to sleep. :)
I'm sure you'll be plenty busy for the next few weeks, but we'll all be eagerly waiting to hear how the puppies do on raw.
Hugs to you and all of yours!
Laura..
You can and should continue to seek advice during her pregnancy. You had first posted pictures of her and stated she was pregnant (yes, after someone asked for an update), so the pictures were removed, no problem. No one said that you had "announced" you had a litter, but by virtue of stating she is having puppies, we need to uphold the rules regarding listed breeders. You are not at all stupid and should not think we (the moderators) or anyone else thinks that...these rules can be confusing to a new poster. If you have any doubts at all as to questions or pictures you'd like to post, please feel free to ask us, we are here to help. This medical board is here for folks who need help and if you need help, please post. There are many on this board that will and can help you.
Cathy & Zimmer
www.midatlanticbulldogrescue.com
BDW is different.
I used BDW more than a year ago. Never had problems with people posting prego mommies or seeing adorable puppies. I too did not understand the "new" (for me) rules. No one is stupid... just confused as to exactly what is being asked of us newbies. I am not even sure what I can post about my cleft palate baby anymore. Thank goodness for the private messages but I do miss more open discussion. I personally would love to have known if her bitch was o.k. and had the litter without problems. Of course now I will post privately but a happy litter announcement is always fun to see and congratulate the owners. We all worry and pray for each other in the Bully Nation. I love being a bulldogger we are some of the best people in the world. Caring, Loving, Giving, and FUN!
Hoping I learn the rules quickly so I can post more freely.
Lisa Taylor
Decisive Bulldogs
All I am going to say...
And I hope I don't get into trouble for this...
We are all doing good. Very lucky to be doing good but we're doing good. For everyone who was wondering... And for what it's worth, this has been the most intense, stressful, scary and exhausting experience of my life... I am not sure i'll ever do it again. But Stella is okay... everyone else is okay. Thanks for keeping us in your thoughts. It's nice to know people care.
Lisa...
if you are ever unsure of something, just ask Sue or myself, we are here to help. If you have a medical question about a puppy, post it. Just no litter announcements or puppy pictures (if you are not an approved breeder). Hope this helps.
Cathy & Zimmer
www.midatlanticbulldogrescue.com
Glad to hear it
thumbs up! =)
Angela, Polly is beautiful everyone loves her here =) A thought
A thought though. No where did I see Deb call her crap. Her word crap was not in describing Polly or any other dog on the site.
She used it to describe Breeders who are only breeding for the money, and not caring about the dogs. In setting the rules, they were trying to filter these out. let me give an example. 7 years ago, my sister and brother in law wanted to get a Golden Retriever. I tried to give them some information and wanted to steer them into researching a good breeder, or perhaps even going to the pound. Instead, my @sshole brother in law ignored me. He found a number online with some photos, and decided to shell out his money to this so called breeder for a puppy. Well, this puppy was a very sick puppy. At first, they thought perhaps he was adjusting to the new home and nervous, etc. A trip to the vet showed that this puppy, who my two nieces were already totally in love with, was a very very sick dog. The vet wanted to kill the breeder. She pulled my sister aside and told her that she saw she had two girls who were very much in love with this dog, but that there was going to be a lot of heartbreak, because this sweet baby didn't have a chance. When my sister called the breeder, he said the dog was fine, he saw nothing wrong with it. Long story short, there was a LOT of heartbreak, and we know that this one puppy was not the only sick dog at this breeder's home. They never got their money back, and this puppy never got to live to 6 months.
As much as we hate to admit it, there are 'breeders' out there who don't give a crap about the dogs. This puppy, this poor little soul never had a chance. The rules set up on BDW are there to prevent this sort of heartbreak, and prevent scum breeders from 'selling their wares' to make a buck. CRAP breeders. In order to enforce this rule, they can't bend them. I encourage anyone who want to be part of the board, just go through with the approval process.
Polly is not crap. Polly is one very loved beautiful girl, with a very caring momma. ALL the dogs and owners who post on here are all beautiful. The site has changed since the beginning (and I was not here at the beginning either) It WAS a place that fanciers of the breed would come and discuss the breed. There are going to be some of these old posters who do miss that, and who do look to the standard. Change comes for the better usually. My Camilla, and my Tillie never looked like the standard, and I'm okay with that. I love all furry faces, no matter what they look like. They have heart, and they steal my heart on a daily basis.
You felt hurt at the comment about Bulldog of the Month, and that's a valid feeling! But I honestly feel that Deb's references to CRAP dogs, is in reference to those breeders who will breed whatever they want just to make a buck. Sick dogs. Sick breeders.
Just be proud that your girl IS bulldog of the month! It's quite an honor, and wouldn't have been chosen if people didn't love her!
And this is just how I perceived Deb's comment. I could be wrong. Deb has always been there for the board with good advice whenever people have needed it, and I really thank her for that
much love to you and your beautiful babies!
~ Christie.
Thanks Christie!
I totally agree about BDW not allowing just anyone to use this site as advertisement for dogs they bred with no regards to health. And it IS a bullodg site. Breed specific. Many come here looking for advice on their bulldogs, and the show breeders that have a lot of experience with bulldogs are INVALUABLE. Their knowledge about bulldog specific issues, (and let's face it, our precious squishy faced babies do have a lot of specific issues) is very important AND very relevant to a breed specific site. Bulldogs have a terrible reputation for being unhealthy, money sucking animals and it is breeders like the ones we see on BDW that are working so hard to change that perception. They are truly dedicated to the breed.
Deb, your comment about Bulldogs of the Month did hurt some feelings. But if your feelings were hurt why not talk to her about it, directly, to the point. "Deb, were you speaking of MY dog? Cause that hurt my feelings" We are adults. We have the ability to communicate in sophisticated ways. Why is that so hard? Lashing out in anger so rarely resolves anything.
Angela, Pollyana is a SUPER SPECIAL bulldog, her therapy work and reading with kids is an asset to the breed, and she is a WONDERFUL bully ambassador. Are you 100% positive Deb called Polly crap? Did you ask her?
I will say that Deb, MY baby girl may not be show quality, but the reality is that that's what MOST of us have. We take the not-show-quality dogs from the show breeders who can not use them in their program. I am asking you to consider our viewpoint. We LOVE the breed. LOVE it passionately. We do not care if our babie's do not conform to the standard, conformation is NOT what we were looking for when we got them. For someone respected and who's opinion and knowledge is valued, like you, it is VERY hurtful to hear you say our beloved babies are somehow not worthy to represent what a bulldog IS. A bulldog is far more than what the body looks like on the outside, their personality is what makes us fall head over heels in love with them. Have you NEVER bred a bulldog that was not show quality? Wouldn't you get hurt if someone said one of your not-show-quality dogs was unworthy to even represent bullodgs?
I understand that this board used to be for the show community, and has evolved to the pet community. But does that really make it a joke? THAT is what you said that hurt my feelings. My dog is not a show dog but she is still a bulldog and I still crave information about BULLDOGS, as a whole. I am a knowledge fanatic, and it makes me feel very sad to think that my questions about the breed, though having nothing to do with showing, conformation, bloodlines, would be considered a joke. :-( The friendly sharing, stories and pictures, is the icing on the cake. Purebred bulldog or not, it's still wonderful to get to know the dogs AND owners. My life is BETTER because I have met Lisa and Onslow. Enriched, enlightened and I value their friendship highly.
Bulldog of the month, or bulldog photo of the month, should include the dogs that any average person is going to encounter on the street, in the store, and, especially, what they are most likely going to get from a reputable breeder. What show breeder is going to sell one of their conformationally superb puppies to a pet home for a pet price? A bulldog that is conformationally challenged is NOT lacking in that unique bully personality. Personality is just as important as physical appearance when considering adding a dog to a home. Only allowing show dogs to be photo of the month, is not an accurate representation of what the average person is going to get.
Ok, I'm done now. I just hate animosity and tension.
Cathy and Audrey
I agree Cathy....
We should act like ADULTS....if Deb had a problem with BDW's Bully of the Month, she should have taken it to the powers that be or even better....ANGELA herself, but NO, she hides it in amongst this Medical Board and demeans us ORDINARY pet owners as if we have somehow "lowered the standard" of this board! As I've stated before, everything Angela does with PollyAnna is giving back to the community. The VAST majority of breeders do what they do for SELF serving purposes, ie., money, notoriety, the pats on the back for all the show wins...."look at what I'VE done! It has little to do with loving the very soul of your dog....loving the kisses in the morning and the snoring in the bed beside you...for the WONDERFUL BREEDERS who actually LIVE with their bullies and love them like children and allow them to be happy family pets as well as show dogs....and YOU KNOW WHO U R! I love and appreciate you soooooo much and YES your opinions are invaluable. But, there is NO place in ANY forum for intolerance of ANY pet because it doesn't measure up to what THE PERFECT look is. Geeez, why am I arguing. It will always be the way it is. People who think they are superior to others, and those who truly are and don't know it! I'm done with it!
We Love ya'll!
Tammy, River, Ace, Hoss & Little Joe
Idiots
Angela, I suppose being an approved, knowledgeable, expert advice giving breeder doesn't keep people from acting like an idiot! We love PollyAnna! and this forum would be a much better place if there were more of YOU and less of HER!
We Love ya'll!
Tammy, River, Ace, Hoss & Little Joe
Well I disagree
And I am entitled to my opinion. My point is, it's not about Puppy Mills or anything else. There WILL always be bad in the world, but it would be nice if people got off the pedistals and understood what education was about and informing people with actual experiences they go through with breeding bulldogs and the process. With all those great well known breeders disappearing into their own world away from this forum and site, that education is not being brought to this site and message board. And I'm sorry but the general info posted isn't always ideal, it's nice to see actual hands on journals etc of the process. It makes people learn a lot easier, and that's a proven study. And I think I will not be returning either, because I quite frankly don't feel like seeing the LACK of respect it takes to give newbies that may be trying to do the right thing. Regardless of what people think, everyone always likes to think the negative. Let me inform you on something, THERE ARE plenty of well known and big shot breeders that are no better than puppy mills. Some of who many look up to. Think on that one for a minute. Adios!
Inform Me
Listen I didn't just step into the world of dogs, so you don't need to inform me of anything. I am fully aware of breeders that are big breeders that I would also never purchase a puppy from (ie show miller). Maybe you missed that. IMO a buyer should seek out a breeder that has maybe a litter a year, is breeding for their own purpose (ie to keep a puppy), raises their dogs in their home, and focuses on health, temperment and conformation in that order. They should have a commitment and dedication to the future of the breed and the quality and conformity to standard. They should educate themselves long before they even consider having a litter and take the right steps to give their bitch the best care and advantage of having a safe pregnancy and litter. Guessing on when a section should be done because you didn't do progestrone testing IMO is just plain risky. There is alot more that I would add to this list but I've got 4 legged kids that need my attention. Yes my dogs are my pets and live in my home and sleep on my bed....oh and at times go to dogs shows and even win.
So think on that one for a minute!
Excuse You
I did do progesterone, maybe you should read the post correctly. You do not know me, and I give my dogs the best home imaginable. And on that note bulldogsworld, I've been coming here for ten years and I think we see why more and more people keep leaving. This poster in particular has one of the most ugliest demeanors on this board. I've been researching and going to shows as well for years, and you know what most people I know don't always get an exact date when to take the c-section, even with progesterone, it could be difficult to get the dog bred that day etc. It can be a wait and see thing, breeding bulldogs in general is risky, and what's your point? Especially when the weekend and a Sunday is concerned. You have no class. Don't worry karma comes around.
Reread my post
it had nothing to do with you personally or your progestrone testing. "You" is used in a general term. This whole thread is in regards to someone else and they did not do progestrone testing. I never said it gets you an exact date...but if you have done no progestrone testing and haven't tested through ovulation and you are guessing from your AI date and you have no idea when ovaluation was, you are taking a risk in determining the date of the csection. What does a weekend have to do with progestrone testing and csections?
I have no class? But you can attack me about progestrone testing that has nothing to do with you and we are basically agreeing.
I agree, I think.
First... I am not sure if you were talking about me guessing when a c-section should be done.... but if you were you must have missed my posts about doing progesterone testing. I did do progesterone testing. I did that and vaginal swabs every other day for over a week. We knew when to do the AI's but unlike some people, I didn't do post AI testing because neither my mentor (a long time Bulldog Breeder who is with the BCA) nor the vet thought it was necessary. She had a date but I think her counting was a day or two off and that is why we were guessing. She wanted to do Friday which she said was day 62 which it was only day 60 by my count... But also, the vet wasn't going to go off of testing anyway. This vet wants dogs to be in labor so their cervix is opening up already and nothing gets trapped inside the uterus to cause infection. So that is why my dates passed and I waited until I did.
But I don't take offense to what you said even if it was about me. You must have not seen some of the posts before they were deleted.
I agree with "IMO a buyer should seek out a breeder that has maybe a litter a year, is breeding for their own purpose (ie to keep a puppy), raises their dogs in their home, and focuses on health, temperment and conformation in that order. They should have a commitment and dedication to the future of the breed and the quality and conformity to standard. They should educate themselves long before they even consider having a litter and take the right steps to give their bitch the best care and advantage of having a safe pregnancy and litter."
Oh and I did educate myself, I am one that never stops researching, asking questions and worrying though. - I've had 3 kids via c-section 2 years apart. Even though I had done it twice before, I still got on babycenter every single day during my 3rd pregnancy. I knew all that there was to know but I still wanted to read and verify and crud... I'm just like that. So I hope no one thinks I went into this not having a clue.
Again, I've not taken any offense here. Just wanted to clear that up.
ummm
I am sorry that somehow all of this tension evolved from my posts... I can't appologize enough.
I don't have a whole lot to say, I've not been on this board long so I don't think it's my place. I don't know what it was like before.
I do agree with what you have said about there being terrible breeders in the show world. I agree 100%. This may sound horrible... but if your dogs live out in chain link kennels all day and all night, despite the weather conditions and you only bathe and groom them just before shows and you only keep the girls around long enough to breed and then get rid of them once they've bred 2 or 3 times... I know I'm going to catch hell for saying this... but I think that's awful.
Yes, I may have bred my dog. But I don't think of her as a commodity. I see all of these sites offering up retired show dogs or retired breeders and I think that's awful. I guess that is why I could never breed professionally and will never be an approved breeder on here. Because I would never breed my dog more than 2 or 3 times (if that) and once she's not able to have litters (even considering spaying her now) she won't leave my home just because I can no longer make money off of her. She's here to stay. She sleeps indoors with me. She's spoiled rotten and part of the family. Heck we even took her camping this summer.. Bought her a life jacket for the lake and everything. She's one of the family and here to stay. I can't imagine what dogs go through to live with someone for 2-5 years and bond with them and then have to move out just because they are past their prime. We will keep 1 puppy now and if we ever breed again we will keep 1 more. That will be 4 dogs for us and that's plenty. It would be difficult having a large lab and any more than 3 bulldogs (plus 3 kids)... so 4 dogs is our limit. And if we were to keep only females and breed each twice that means we'd have 6 litters. No more. I couldn't go past that because I'm not about to start putting dogs in cages just to keep them around for breeding or going to get rid of dogs so that I can make room for more money makers. Sure show people and breeders who do that might consider themselves responsible because they keep clean cages and such... but in my opinion, dogs do have emotions and feelings and I think it's irresponsible to reject them just because they can no longer make money. Then there are those breeders out there that have 10+ dogs... You can't tell me 10 dogs live in your homes? I've been to a local "breeder" of toy breeds here in my home town and that lady has 30 something dogs all in their pound size kennels and she thinks she's such a responisble and respectable breeder because she keeps the cages clean. HA!!! - Not a single one of those dogs knows a human the way I feel dogs should. I think doing that is cruel and irresponsible.
But I probably should be keeping my mouth shut because lord knows someone is going to come back and rip me a new one.
I understand the rules but I think it's wrong to only allow someone on an approved breeders list if they've bred at least 3 times. Sometimes, it's the byb/private breeders who care most about and take the best care of their dogs and litters.
PollyAnna was never mentioned
anywhere in my post. Angela jumped into defensive mode assuming I was talking about PollyAnna. I wonder why? If it were my dog as Bulldog of the Month I wouldn't get defensive, I would wonder who the hell they were talking. Then I could certainly produce the paper, with nothing to hide.
Yesterday I sent both Angela and Lisa private messages with my apologies if I hurt their feelings. Lisa has always been open about Onslow being and OEB and she has responded to me and thanked me for my message. I have no problems with OEB...I have problems with people calling them Bulldogs.
There are breeders that dupe people into buying an OEB puppy and telling them it is a Bulldog. That is unscrupulous. It has happened to people that have come to this board. I don't know why the OEB owners are so defensive. Whenever anything is said about an OEB they are quick to criticise our purebred Bulldogs.
No where in my post did I say anything about any dog on this board as being crap. Breeding crap is a reference used by many breeders who know of BYB, puppy millers, show millers, etc. that breed crap. Just like Christie explained.
The rules for breeders is here for a reason...to protect the new buyer from unreputable breeders and to try and incourage new owners to buy from reputable breeders. Thus the reason for the approved list.
I have exchanged private message with Laura from day 1. She is a very novice bulldog owner and she had a very scary experience and ended up with a lucky outcome. Only time will tell if all is well.
It doesn't cost anymore to own a quality, healthy sound temperment puppy. It does cost more to own an unhealthy dog that is constantly at the vets dealing with issues. Unfortunately the breeder that refers to all these problems as "just a bulldog thing" is the breeder I would avoid. If there dogs have all those bulldog things then they need to not be breeding that bulldog because there are HEALTHY bulldogs.
Much of my frustration is with all the idiots you deal with when you are placing puppies. #1 request How Much? #2 request is Color? No one could care less about healthy parents. If I wanted to pump out $1,200 bulldog puppies I could have sold 50 of them and the puppy millers that are doing that are the ones that are selling you people on these boards the bulldogs that have all the health problems. I don't know how hard that is to understand and why that is so frustrating for reputable breeders and furthurmore I don't understand why people just don't get it. This is the reason breeders just give up on education...it is a thankless endeavour and an uphill battle.
Maybe when you no longer have the choice of owning a bulldog and the dog activists like PETA get their way and have every dog sterilized and the breed goes extinct then you all will understand why some of us are so passionate about our breed.
I agree with Lynn....this board is a pet board. I disagree that this was a show board. It was a board that was able to combine both worlds quite well because the owner was a bulldog fancier, breeder and sometimes exhibitor and had the best interest of the breed at heart. That is no longer the situation. There is no longer the wealth of knowledge here. This website was a gem at one time and it is sad to see if dwindle away.
Sorry I haven't eaten all day and this is a lot of rambling thoughts. Enjoy your board!
some breeders(not all) but alot, just kill me
I always hear, oh we are in it to better the breed, we love the breed yada yada. No the ones who really love the breed are the ones that rescue. The people that try in vain to save every dog, the dogs people think ugly, the ones breeders would toss out as not perfect, all of the out of pocket money spent, all of the time and tears, most breeders will never understand that kind of love for the breed, so it just makes me laugh when I hear some stuck up snob say all this B.S, about not a perfect bulldog, or not even a bulldog. If it says Bulldog in the name, it's a Bulldog, get over your self.
Again I am not lumping all breeders under my statement as I know a few good ones, but I will say my statement covers a majority, as alot are in it for the reasons stated in previous posts.
I don't understand
why when Deb tried to explain something and INADVERTENTLY hurt someone's feelings (which she apologized for) she is being personally and viciously attacked by all of you. Apparently it's not ok for her to unintentionally insult your dog but it's ok for you to deliberately insult her because you don't share her opinion? Mob mentality at it's worst. Shame on all of you.
Deb is one of the few experienced bulldog people still contributing to this board, and if you look back through her posts/replies you'll see that she is fairly consistent in replying to people's questions with helpful advice. Anyone who's passionate about the breed is going to have strong opinions about it. That's a good thing for the BULLDOG, and that's what this is really all supposed to be about.
Heather, Jack, Rosie, and Thor
I agree with you! This is NOT RIGHT
I may not agree with everything Deb says,or the way she says it, but verbally attacking her, blatantly calling her names, is completely unnecessary. We are all way too old now to resort to playground fight tactics.
And there seems to be a division between the show breeders and the pet owners, and neither side is willing to concede ANY validation to the others points or concerns.
There will ALWAYS BE ABUSIVE NEGLECTFUL HUMAN BEINGS. ALWAYS. You will NOT make every dog in this country wanted, cared for, loved, and cherished by eliminating the breeding of purebred dogs. The only way to eliminate the need for rescues is to eliminate human beings. To even suggest that rescuers are the only TRUE lovers of (any particular breed of dog) is absurd.
We ALL LOVE BULLDOGS. At least that is one thing we can agree upon. But bulldogs came about because a group of fanciers got together over 200 years ago and decided that they would NOT let the breed die out. They carefully considered what needed to be changed so that people wouldn't demand their elimination, and then carefully, with MUCH thought and consideration, bred the right dogs to produce the bulldog temperament we all know and love today. Their hard work and dedication to the breed was a GIFT to all of us now that LOVE them. They came up with guidelines, so there would be no doubt about what a bulldog is. Exhibiting dogs has been around for several hundred years. NO ONE is going to willfully choose all the care, upkeep, travel, money, heartache, and everything else that goes into the breeding and showing of dogs unless the have a deep passion for the DOGS. They are not all perfect, but again you would have to wipe out the human race in order to truly end all kinds of animal misuse.
There are STILL breeders that are DEDICATED to bulldogs, to steadfastly work to keep them LOOKING LIKE BULLDOGS, and to be healthy!!! This is not a bad thing. OMG can you imagine a world with no bulldogs? Completely unworth living in. Who do you think is making SURE!!! bulldogs still exist???? WHO do you think is working so HARD to overcome the serious health issues bulldogs have??? Without breeders who SHOW their dogs, bulldogs as a breed would slowly but surely CHANGE from the bulldog we all love so much! In order to keep a breed alive there MUST BE peer reviewed CONFORMATION judging. Without it, ANY dogs would be bred, no matter what they looked like! To completely disregard the very people who are dedicating themsleves to making SURE bulldogs are a thriving, vital breed, to making sure that there are HEALTHY bulldogs, to lump them ALL into one category of selfish, glory seeking, animal users and abusers because they SHOW them, or because SOME breeders do not care one bit if they breed unhealthy non-conforming dogs and will sell them to ANYONE that has the money, is so blindly childish, WRONG, and hypocritical! They show their LOVE of the breed by making sure to BREED HEALTHY dogs that still conform to the bulldog standard!! That LOVE IS VALID, vital, and ensures that our grandchildren's children will be able to be owned and loved by a bulldog, just like we are!
Deb did NOT SAY that pet bulldogs are NOT WORTHY BULLDOGS!!! The BIGGEST conflict seems to be about what dogs should be used as photo of the month, and THAT is where there is disagreement between pet owners and show breeders. Good examle of the breed? Beloved, not very good example, pet? There is NO NEED to turn THAT question into a personal attack against someone, or to attack breeders in general!!! My God people! Without the RESPONSIBLE breeders, there would be NO BULLDOGS!!! Of course they are going to consider the photo of the month as important to show what a QUALITY bulldog should look like. Do I agree with that? NO, I do not. But good grief I am not going to turn it into a personal vendetta against show breeders!
Cathy and Audrey
Thanks Cathy
It's nice to see that some one gets it!
This is what was said...I might have taken it wrong.but...
am not the only one who did:
It's unfortunate what David built over the 10 years or so has been torn down to nothing in such a short amount of time. The breeders that have SO much knowledge think this site is now a total joke. It is simply here for the fun chat. The information that comes from this board should be taken very lightly. We now have Bulldogs of the month that aren't even Bulldogs. I'm curious to see what the Bulldog calendars will look like. I'm guessing we will have Olde English, American and whatever breed people decide are Bulldogs in there.
Many people think she is an Olde. Her registration papers do say "Bulldog". I can produce her papers and I am not hiding anything. She is a bulldog and her parents looked like little show dogs. She was just the ugly duckling of the litter and no one wanted her...but us...we are blessed!
We love everyone here and even the drama...sorry for any misunderstandings and just let it go..
PollyAnna's Words of Wisdom
http://www.lakeside-studio-petportraits-andmore.com
And I sent you a private apology
did I not. She looks like an Olde and I was told she was an old, by several people, I said I was sorry I posted it. Honestly I just don't care anymore. If you don't want to accept my apology that is fine.
I said none of the things Tammy said I said, those were in your post.
I'm done!
I have accepted your apology
And I think this did get blown out of proportion. You are a strong advocate for the Bulldog and I applaude you for that! Keep up the great work with your Bulldogs this is a special breed.
PollyAnna's Words of Wisdom
http://www.lakeside-studio-petportraits-andmore.com
Its ok
I just want to leave it at we agree to disagree on some situations dealing with this website and forum. Take Care. I have no time or need to argue back and forth, I just thought you were trying to attack me as well, which I wasn't going to have. But either way it's just an internet forum, and I am over it. I apologize to you if you felt attacked, I just don't like how some people yell and say one thing, but there are several harsh realities out there. It just can be a bit sickening at times, and that's the truth. But a lot of things in life are, so whatever. I feel that more knowledge and experience should be and could be brought to the boards, but of course there are a bunch of people who are always thinking other thoughts. So it is prevented and not allowed. Keep this in mind though, people are going to do things one way or another, I'd rather the knowledge be there especially with people posting hands on experience. I don't care if it's someone's tenth litter, or their first. It should just be able to be seen. Reason being, so future people who may decide to breed, see the mistakes or the positive outcomes of a situation by doing the right and wrong things... My opinion though. Take Care.