Bulldogs World

I can feel your pain and sadness in your words. We all know, and Mabel knew, how much you loved her and the care you gave her in her life. Don't beat yourself up over what happened, it was simply an accident. That's all. Not bad bully owner, nothing but an accident that could happen to any one of us in many different ways with out bullys. 

If this helps at all, I don't know, but here is what I believe. God made every living thing with a spirit and soul. I don't know if animals have an actual soul, though it would seem to me they do, but I know they have a spirit. When God creates a spirit, it never dies. All living creatures' spirits are somewhere, Biblically that is true. So Mabel IS alive in spirit in Heaven, that is what I believe. I have studied it out and prayed and prayed about what is correct, as I have a heart toward animals and it hurts so much when I lose a beloved horse or dog. This is what my husband and I have come to comfortable with according to scritputres, so this is what I think to be true. Mabel and Duffy are together over the Bridge, and they are no longer old, in pain, or confusion. They are safe and well.

and while you accept the total blame, you can't be so hard on yourself.  Accidents happen and you did everything in your power to give Mabel the life she deserved.  Praying that God gives you comfort in your heart.

hugs

I know this is really hard on you. But please don't keep kicking your self around on the would of be's and could of. This was really something out of your hands. No it may not be we want to see our babies goes. Losing a Bulldog is one of the hardest things to get over already. I do believe when God wants his babies he does call them home. I do believe God has hand pick us to be the Keeper of his special kids. No matter what it is heart breaking when he decide to call them home this was and is a pure accident. please don't blame your self. You did love her with all your Heart and soul. Everyone knows this. Even more God does know you love and care for her and you are griven. Things just happen sometimes. even when we think they are not. Mabel is right beside you along with her brother. they know you love them both and neither one of them want to see you beating your self up. they don't want their Daddy upset. i am so sorry this happen.

for the loss of your sweet girl, may she rest in peace & prayers you find peace & comfort.

I know words are so hollow at this time.  I'm so incrdibly sorry for your loss.  

The obvious miss was a Pool Safety Fence within our Lanai.  I am at a loss as to why I didn't put it in.  We are now putting one in.  Kind of like closing the barn doors after the horses have left the stable.  But we have a two younger kids so if anything this needs to be corrected for them.

Has anyone dealt with drowning.  I feel bad and stupid.

If anyone has had a drowning, please PM me.

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please try not to be so hard on yourself----I know it's easy for me to say that, but I REALLLY hope you

can forgive yourself.....Mabel was a precious baby who knew you loved her----you made a quick, NORMAL

human mistake----((( hugs ))).  I really, reallly wish I could take your heartbreak away----Praying for you and

all who are missing Mabel.  Oh, and I believe we WILL all see our furbabies again--we WILL!!!, and Mabel

is sooo happy now, up in Heaven,  looking down at you with total love, and she cannot wait to give you kisseshhh

again!!!